Seven Steps to Being a Superhero

          Everybody wants to be a superhero. Everybody. I used to want to be Spider-Man... Even though I'm a girl... Don't ask. Anyway, my point is, everybody wants to be a hero, even if it isn't a super one. Now, I don't know about you, but I'd rather fight discrimination than the Green Goblin.  The Harry Osborn version of him was actually pretty cool, better than Norman Osborn anyway. The point is, here are some steps that anyone can take to being a hero.

1. Identify and accept what makes you different. Write down some of the things that you, not anyone else, believe defines you, and write why that is a good thing. Know where your beliefs and individual quirks originated and why they are important.
2. Challenge yourself to do something different. Join new a club, take a new route to work, try a new restaurant, etc. I know that I keep repeating this one, but it really pays off. 
3. Keep learning. Meet a diverse spread of people, read a wide variety of books, and through it all, keep an open mind and learn about beliefs other than your own. But always remember to...
4. Wait before you judge. Just because somebody isn't like you or isn't like the societal stereotype doesn't mean that they're "bad" or "wrong". Please, give people a chance before you make any decisions about them, don't make assumptions.
5. Make sure everyone is heard equally. Don't let labels get in the way of hearing what everyone is saying and treating them as the equals they are, and include everyone despite what you may have assumed about them in the past.
6. Speak up. When you see examples of discrimination, don't just let it happen! Stand up for the victim(s) and make a positive impact. You don't realize how much this could mean to people, and doing the right thing is always good.
7. Fight for change. Once you change your own mindset about discrimination, you can start to change other people's mindsets too. As Ghandi said, "In a gentle way, you can shake the world."